What you focus on grows.
This is a law of the universe. This is meant to teach us to use our focus (thought) wisely.
One critical distinction we are meant to learn in this “reality” is between an
ALLOWANCE(light, heat, good, abundance) and an ABSENCE (darkness, cold, bad, poverty).
Allowance have a positive reality and a vibrational level.
Absences don’t exist as “things”, they are only a lack of Allowance .
Our higher self communicates to us through our desires. Whatever desires you have within your heart it was programmed into your DNA to be fulfilled as an event or experience to be materialize in your reality, The universe doesn’t tease us. It will not put a desire within your heart that you cannot materialize.